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11-09-2011, 03:18 PM
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Fellow SBFers. Please Advise Scam or Damsel In Distress?
I met this casucasian girl online on some site.
After getting her msn and adding her and we started chatting. Me says (4:29 PM) Hey is this A? Are you for real? You don't reply on msn though you come online..soo what do you do for fun? A says (4:32 PM) clubbing... and shopping with my friends... Me says (4:32 PM) thats cool where do you club and what drinks are your favourite? A says (4:32 PM) wine... zouk... Me says (4:33 PM) white wine or red? i prefer white over red though..and i just went butter yesterday it was really packed A says (4:33 PM) both babe... Me says (4:34 PM) so how many guys have you met from online? A says (4:35 PM) 2 babe... Me says (4:35 PM) whao thats quite little? caucasian guys or asians like me? A says (4:35 PM) malay, chinese Me says (4:36 PM) but shouldn't you get alot of guys asking you out with your profile on XXX? A says (4:36 PM) hehehehee.... Me says (4:36 PM) ive been meeting ppl since i was 16 A says (4:36 PM) maybe.... Me says (4:36 PM) but ive only met up with one caucasian girl so far though A says (4:37 PM) ohhh.... im half canadian 1/4 scottish 1/4 chinese Me says (4:37 PM) whaoo thats a unique mixture A says (4:38 PM) really.... A says (4:39 PM) your chinese?? Me says (4:39 PM) well u look pretty unique so it kinda figures ure mixed hmm yeah singaporean chinese..im not that lucky to be bred with that much mixture but my chinese sucks and im more westernized i guess as ive been watching english movies since young A says (4:40 PM) hahahaa.... A says (4:41 PM) you working or still studying... ?? Me says (4:41 PM) not really both in singapore you do know we got to serve the army for 2 years right? im serving 1 year and 10 months..my life is now really slack..just having fun cause i can't do much and i can't study for now A says (4:43 PM) ohhh... you stay witch part?? Me says (4:43 PM) of singapore? XXX...hmm no surprise if you don't know where that is though not many ppl do.. A says (4:44 PM) i stay XXX... A says (4:45 PM) hahahahaa... im sure you got alots of GF Me says (4:45 PM) hmmm..take a guess? im sure u have alot of bfs too A says (4:45 PM) nope babe.. just broke up A says (4:46 PM) for a 8 months relationship... Me says (4:46 PM) soo out of curiousity what sorta answers do you get from your XXX profile? whao... but you know being in a relationship isnt everything okay alot of exs then? A says (4:47 PM) yes babe... A says (4:47 PM) any plan this weekend... ?? Me says (4:47 PM) why not ask any plan tonight instead? A says (4:48 PM) im not free tonight babe.. A says (4:49 PM) im free on saturday evening... Me says (4:49 PM) what time? im free too.. A says (4:49 PM) around 10pm Me says (4:49 PM) well its either that or go karaoke with my friends, thats late..but im cool with it. what do you plan to do out that late though? A says (4:50 PM) clubbing... drink... you know... Me says (4:50 PM) you going with friends? Me says (4:51 PM) but i feel like boycotting clubbing after last night..there was this girl i liked and i knew she was going butter.. Me says (4:52 PM) when i found her she was dancing with another guy..and they were making out..so yeaaaaaa i dunno ive had alot of bad clubbing experiences A says (4:52 PM) sunday evening or monday morning you will book in army... ?? Me says (4:52 PM) nah im special,i no longer book in or out Me says (4:53 PM) im a XXX A says (4:55 PM) hahahahaa.... you stay with your parents... ?? by the way how old are you again ... ?? Me says (4:56 PM) hmm you mean you stay alone? and why not take a guess at how old i am? ppl always get my age wrong A says (4:57 PM) 19 ? Me says (4:57 PM) cold,try again? A says (4:57 PM) 21 Me says (4:57 PM) warm A says (4:59 PM) hahahahaa.... Me says (4:59 PM) but okay im 22 ure 21 right? So you're only looking for a bf? A says (4:59 PM) XXX 22? Me says (4:59 PM) ever thought of just taking it slow and not having a bf? ah huh Me says (5:01 PM) why not just add me on facebook or something? A says (5:01 PM) sorry babe... im not using FB im using faceparty.... Me says (5:01 PM) whaoo..whats that? A says (5:01 PM) that is our facebook in UK Me says (5:02 PM) and thats quite shocking no facebook! but ure staying in Singapore right so u shld like get facebook haha A says (5:03 PM) i don't like facebook Me says (5:03 PM) yeah well everyone has their own likes and dislikes, was just saying haha so ure on XXX to find a sg bf? A says (5:03 PM) yes babe... i found my ex bf in XXX so maybe Me says (5:04 PM) malay guy or chinese guy? haha A says (5:04 PM) its nothing.. im looking for someoneto love meand to be with me all the time and honest Me says (5:06 PM) soo anyways im meeting you on saturday for clubbing with your friends? A says (5:06 PM) something..because you know i feel out of place to then A says (5:07 PM) because there with there bf and im alone Me says (5:07 PM) hmm well everyone needs somebody to love haha A says (5:07 PM) i agree... Me says (5:08 PM) hmm lets just meet on saturday and see how it goes? so are we, a) clubbing with your friends, b) having me make cocktail drinks for you by my poolside or balcony A says (5:09 PM) well maybe we can have a drink... Me says (5:10 PM) can u drink alot? if u can ill have to standby and buy more liquor haha A says (5:11 PM) yes babe... Me says (5:11 PM) so not clubbing then i guess? Me says (5:12 PM) so do you want...jager bombs, pina coladas--> This is my specialty, tequila pops, red wine with sprite, or baileys shake? or all of them? haha A says (5:12 PM) hahahahaha... your so alcoholic... Me says (5:13 PM) im an alcohol enthusiast i go for quality not quantity..haha soo if u want i can put together a few drinks and you could try them A says (5:14 PM) thanks babe... i love to... Me says (5:16 PM) so its a date then? saturday 10pm? and..ill text you my address? A says (5:16 PM) hmmm sure babe...if your free babe... Me says (5:16 PM) you're not the kind to cancel right? A says (5:16 PM) maybe you can fetch me at changi airport... 9 pm... Me says (5:16 PM) cause just saying but i really hate when ppl do that. ohh ure in uk now? A says (5:17 PM) nope babe... im here now in the Philippines. i visited my Grandmother hospitalize... Me says (5:17 PM) do you have a curfew? just asking haha A says (5:18 PM) nope babe... and i can bring guy to my room A says (5:19 PM) im renting own room Me says (5:20 PM) hmm u staying at XXX right? A says (5:20 PM) yes babe... XXX why... ?? Me says (5:20 PM) why not we meet at changi.. Me says (5:21 PM) and ill bring my bar stuff along and we just head to your place and i do the drinks there? but if ure not okay with it A says (5:21 PM) hmmm Me says (5:21 PM) we can just do it at my poolside A says (5:24 PM) hahahaha... can i have your Hp number babe... Me says (5:25 PM) XXXXXXXXX A says (5:25 PM) so i can sms you my flight details... Me says (5:25 PM) u have ice at ur place right? yeah sure A says (5:26 PM) on my room maybe no babe but my friend in other room has, because she always feel hot.. Me says (5:27 PM) haha okay well if she wants she can join us for drinks too A says (5:27 PM) yes babe hehehee... babe im using Philippines Number right now A says (5:29 PM) i sms you Me says (5:30 PM) yeah got it A says (5:31 PM) hmmm thanks babe... i will sms you my flight details tommorrow after i book my flight Me says (5:32 PM) yeah sure let me know A says (5:33 PM) its raining here babe...hows the weather over there... ?? Me says (5:33 PM) its looking good, sunny Me says (5:34 PM) anyway i might have to go soon need to spend time with my bro haha haha okay well if she wants she can join us for drinks too So anyway on the day itself I got a sms from her saying that she has bad news, her mother didn't send her the money to take a flight back to Singapore. She starts saying that she just needs $150 to book a flight from the Philippines back to Singapore. She says she will pay me back once she reaches Singapore and her allowance is locked in her room which no one has access to except her. I was abit reluctant but she kept saying she will pay me back and that I can trust her. I started feeling that it was some sort of scam and explained myself to her. She then said that its okay I don't have to trust her and that she will sell her body to earn the money to come home and then to prove me wrong she will still meet up with me to show me she is not a scammer. She then asked for $200 instead of $150 cause her grandmother needed $50 for medicine..I was tempted as she texted me some horny stuff too and my little brother was getting the better of me.. But come to think of it I haven't heard her voice, seen other photos of her. So when I asked her for more photos she said she only has back in Singapore on her desktop and when I ask to hear her voice before i pass her the money through Western Union she says that its expensive to call her around 100 PHP. I checked with singtel and they said its only 6 cents to 39 cents per minute if you dial 01963 first. When I told her that, she said she feels so hurt that i don't trust her and said good bye to me. I can't help thinking I've just gotten myself out from being scammed but I would like your opinion thanks. I sense its a scam cause it feels like she is using reverse psychology on me and pretending that she understands..For all I know it could be some dude on the other end or some pinoy girl or really a scared caucasian girl just trying to get back home to Singapore. But her english does seem quite bad for a caucasian girl doesn't it?!
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11-09-2011, 03:33 PM
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Re: Fellow SBFers. Please Advise Scam or Damsel In Distress?
intro her to me leh, i want to help her since u dun wan... tks ...
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11-09-2011, 03:34 PM
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Re: Fellow SBFers. Please Advise Scam or Damsel In Distress?
Scam, 100%+chop.
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11-09-2011, 03:43 PM
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Re: Fellow SBFers. Please Advise Scam or Damsel In Distress?
Personally I think it's a scam. Don't underestimate a liar.
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11-09-2011, 04:06 PM
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Re: Fellow SBFers. Please Advise Scam or Damsel In Distress?
online scams are everywhere to trick your small head into a neverending pit.
I have people who add me add on MSN (attractive woman) than act like very cloase in the end want you transfer money to their Phllipines acc( quite common?) yea. better use big head think before you act! 
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11-09-2011, 04:47 PM
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Re: Fellow SBFers. Please Advise Scam or Damsel In Distress?
Bro, definite scam. Don't do it. I have seen another variation from China.
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11-09-2011, 05:10 PM
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Re: Fellow SBFers. Please Advise Scam or Damsel In Distress?
Thanks bros, yeah i put my foot down and told her that unless she calls me and i hear her voice i'm not going to send her anything. But if it turns out she really is a caucasian girl in distress then hiaz..too bad lor..
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11-09-2011, 05:11 PM
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Re: Fellow SBFers. Please Advise Scam or Damsel In Distress?
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11-09-2011, 09:10 PM
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11-09-2011, 09:24 PM
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Re: Fellow SBFers. Please Advise Scam or Damsel In Distress?
Then i feel more relieved i didn't turn down a damsel in distress haha..lucky me!
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11-09-2011, 10:04 PM
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Re: Fellow SBFers. Please Advise Scam or Damsel In Distress?
definite scam. thank god for you bro.
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11-09-2011, 11:30 PM
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Re: Fellow SBFers. Please Advise Scam or Damsel In Distress?
went through the same thing as you bro! confirm scam!
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12-09-2011, 01:11 AM
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Re: Fellow SBFers. Please Advise Scam or Damsel In Distress?
cam scam scam!! bewRE BRO ....
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