Finding a FB in SBF ! Is it a disaster in the making or a blessing in disguise ?

[jasdude]

Hi guys and gals

Another interesting question for all to discuss here ! Finding a FB in SBF ! Is it a disaster in the making or a blessing in disguise ?

If you have a FB here , all you side activities will have to stop cos it visible to the other partner . On the other hand , it enhances the relationship cos both you guys have a common topic .

What is your take on this . Hope to get actual couples that hooked up or previously hooked up to response also .

[zacarie]

It can be a blessing and also a disaster.
Blessing.. common topic will be sbf. the posts and discussions. U can talk sexual stuff openly as u prolly know tt the other party is not as innocent as they seem. since they are here.

Disaster.. whatever fl, gb etc activities tt u have done can be seen clearly here. tt's if it was all done using the same nick.

the side activities may have stopped w the current nick. but if they have clones? U will not know what other things are they doing.. cause u dont know it is them..

And then comes the sharing of experience.. when together i guess both are fine bout it. But when u split? Will they still be ok reading the posts tt u write that involves both of them? It depends on individual person how well they took the ending of the relationship.

Then comes the private messaging.. if ur partner trusts u completely, he/she will trust u with how u handle ur sbf acct. Some may get jealous/upset tt u are receiving pms from others(esp the gals who recieves pm from guys). I remember my ex fb told me 'y dont u just stop posting on sbf so no guys will pm u.'
and u cant hide tt u did cause they have an acct to see it. haha. But me being me.. Like to give my opinions on certain things.

Cant really put a good or bad to it. it really depends on how ur partner is.

[smartke]

just 'dropped by' to support tis thread...

[Apocalypse]

Originally Posted by jasdude

Hi guys and gals

Another interesting question for all to discuss here ! Finding a FB in SBF ! Is it a disaster in the making or a blessing in disguise ?

If you have a FB here , all you side activities will have to stop cos it visible to the other partner . On the other hand , it enhances the relationship cos both you guys have a common topic .

What is your take on this . Hope to get actual couples that hooked up or previously hooked up to response also .

y don't u start the ball rolling? thats what you seniors tell us newbie all the time in the threads.

[bengeo]

FLs who are in financial difficulties are good candidates to be FB. offer settle their problem , negotiate for a rate where both parties are happy.They will be more than happy just to serve one customer instead of many stranger. It is a win win, you get to fuck her on an agreed rate and frequency. she only need to serve one client, and pretend you are BF during the time. As fb she feel less a prostitute. One condition,she must not be attached to anyone at that time to avoid complication.
Had this arrangement 2 years ago with one FL who was facing credit card debt. Once she clear the debt,we quit ,and today she is a happy air stewardess with SQ.

[FRwriter]

I'm not too sure, but if I'm wrong, pls correct me..
Here the FLs or WLs mentioned, mostly are into commercial sex?

So doubt will be easy to find a FB here?

[Snah]

Morning Ms Zacarie..

Hmm...I had a similar case as well...i was upset that my ex FB received PMs from fellow bros here...But the reason I was upset was because we had agreed to remain exclusively to each other. so much so she had given me total access to her acct (she was giving to me willingly, no force here). Guess she didnt understand or we both got the meaning totally wrong.

Cheers!

[zacarie]

Originally Posted by Snah

Morning Ms Zacarie..

Hmm...I had a similar case as well...i was upset that my ex FB received PMs from fellow bros here...But the reason I was upset was because we had agreed to remain exclusively to each other. so much so she had given me total access to her acct (she was giving to me willingly, no force here). Guess she didnt understand or we both got the meaning totally wrong.

Cheers!

Tt's good for u then. I gave mine to him cause i cant stand him constantly asking'so? Any new PMs?' so just gave it. but even after he had it. it wasnt any better cause whenever there was a new pm can tell he wasnt happy bout it at all..

And i doubt u could have forced her as well. u cant possibly say 'give me ur pw so i can check on u' right? Quite curious.. how did u know she gave it to u willingly? And not just for the sake of giving?

and since u said u both have agreed on being exclusive to each other. y did she still have to give it to u? did u make her feel tt u dont trust her?For mine. i felt tt way. so gave it to him after too many qns asked.

Just wondering if ur ex felt the same way i did. and what cause her to want to end it? Hope u dont mind my qns..

[geckoSG]

Its a blessing I would say, mine wouldn't promote me here cos they worry too much ladies PM me later. But they do know I come here to post story once a while

[BiRd13]

Think have it's pros n cons like what other bros mentioned...

Pros: Common topic, understand you more... and perhaps knowing how to please you better...

Cons: May get 'jealous' esp if you go for FL, HC etc...

[geckoSG]

Originally Posted by BiRd13

Cons: May get 'jealous' esp if you go for FL, HC etc...

True, for me, to be fair for my FBs and Lovers, I already quit the commercial
scene and had done tests to ensure I'm clean.

[jasdude]

Originally Posted by bengeo

FLs who are in financial difficulties are good candidates to be FB. offer settle their problem , negotiate for a rate where both parties are happy.They will be more than happy just to serve one customer instead of many stranger. It is a win win,.

Bro , this is more of a trade off indecent proposal . Monetary transactions for sexual favours does not count as FBs . More like requisitioning for a mistress already . However its does not mean FBs dun ask for things as well . My friend just brought a Chanel bag for his FB as a birthday cum Christmas cum anniversary present . They have being together for 2 years .

Originally Posted by zyzzz

Haha , Is it even possible to find one on SBF ?!

Originally Posted by FRwriter

I'm not too sure, but if I'm wrong, pls correct me..
Here the FLs or WLs mentioned, mostly are into commercial sex?

So doubt will be easy to find a FB here?

Yes it is very possible . There are lots of silent female readers in here . Please do not mix them up with FLs or WLs . Give the ladies their due respect BROs . There are many ladies of different professionals , some i meet to date are teachers , nurses , bankers and even high level executives even .

[otamay]

In every situation, definitely there are pros and cons to it.
The most important thing is how both parties approach and handle the issue on hand objectively.
At the end of the day, it must be a win-win situation. Btw, I am open for one FB here if any sistas interested

[Listener]

Whether disaster or blessing, it come down to both parties. Both have to understand what they are getting into and respect/trust each other.

Think twice before going into a FB relationship.

[Snah]

Originally Posted by zacarie

Tt's good for u then. I gave mine to him cause i cant stand him constantly asking'so? Any new PMs?' so just gave it. but even after he had it. it wasnt any better cause whenever there was a new pm can tell he wasnt happy bout it at all..

And i doubt u could have forced her as well. u cant possibly say 'give me ur pw so i can check on u' right? Quite curious.. how did u know she gave it to u willingly? And not just for the sake of giving?

and since u said u both have agreed on being exclusive to each other. y did she still have to give it to u? did u make her feel tt u dont trust her?For mine. i felt tt way. so gave it to him after too many qns asked.

Just wondering if ur ex felt the same way i did. and what cause her to want to end it? Hope u dont mind my qns..

Of cos I dont mind the qns my dear..

Well true enuff of cos i didnt ask for it. as to whether she gave to me willingly, hmmm thinking back I recall she jus pass the pw to me. I didnt sense anything else. Probably I wasnt sensitive I guess. So I assumed she did it willingly. Maybe another case of wrong interpretation and understand.

She did tell me she was feelin the pressure frm me la. hmmm...I felt sore, angry, disappointed n definetly confused after she left me. I felt my wholeworld had crushed lol. Worst break up ever in my 32 years of life def. Well I guess we had both learnt our lessons, and hopefully we both can carry on our lives..(i know she is )

Cheers!