Need advise - How to cum faster?

[Squeezy]

Hi all bros,

Any ideas how to cum faster and ejaculate inside your wife or partner?

The issue with me is that i find it difficult for me to cum during love making. The dick is hard but still difficult to cum. When i DIY, it shoot very fast.

Any bros here face the same problem as me? I really want to have a baby with my wife and this disability of me to cum is really embrassing my wife. Everyone thought she's having problem but it is ME who has a problem...

It's stressful for me sometimes even when we make love...

Any bros here can offer me some good advise?

[ice_archilles]

Bro Squeezy,

I understand what you are coming from.

There are probably two reasons why, firstly it could be due to stress factor, unable to relax thoroughly. The second one could be due to frequent maturbating or DIY which make your little bro not getting used to cum inside your wife.

I have the same experience, any bros out there please share some advise.

[Squeezy]

Hi Bro archilles,

Thanks for letting me know that i'm not alone..

Apart from sex drugs (Doctor prescribled), is there anything i can do or prevent in order to have a healthy sex life?

A man who is unable to cum during sex...I'm sure alot of bros out there will be laughting at me for having long sex without cumming. But when you're in my shoe for 4 yrs, there is something seriously wrong with me.....

Pls let me know if there's any proven methods to "cure" this okie??

[kenneth21]

1. no one knows your dick better than yourself. when masturbating, you can control how much to "squeeze" it and hence giving you the perfect sensation. Stop masturbating for 1 week and try having sex again. if it doesn't help, stop masturbation for a longer period.

2. it could be physical factor. MAsturbation is relaxing and does not require much stamina nor strength. For sex, a position can cause your body to tense up too much because you use more muscles / stamina. Go for some routine exercise such as jogging, push up and strengthen the back muscles by lying flat on ur stomach and raise your legs and upper body up. Alternatively, you can try the spoon position which is less strenous as your body is lying on the bed.

[trash55]

During sex with your wife, after prolong pumping and still cannot cum, you can take out your cock, ask her to open her mouth, and you masturbate in your style before cumming in her mouth... that works for me.

[see see only]

Bro TS,

Try maturbating without ejection for days .... control, control, control ..... you will go crazy just by looking at your wifey and i believe your didi will not be able to hold ejection more than 5 min while inside your wife's love hole

[yundan7143]

Originally Posted by see see only

Bro TS,

Try maturbating without ejection for days .... control, control, control ..... you will go crazy just by looking at your wifey and i believe your didi will not be able to hold ejection more than 5 min while inside your wife's love hole

Whoa, actually dis advice i think more dangereous. You might end up not able to ejaculate when you make love with ur wife. Funny bro notorious big got problem holding it longer while you got problem releasing

[Holechecker]

Ts,
Its all in ur head.
1) Ur wife might not necessary have the sex appeal to u. Who do u wish to bonk most?
2) Communicate with ur wifey. Ask her to put in effort to squeeze ur dicky like in diy.
3) Same position no kick, try kamasutra lah.
4) Try making out somewhere else, not necessary on bed or at home. Its the kick that counts.
5) Have u try FL b4? Same issue? If no problem, then return to step 1.

[asdfghjkl]

since you want a baby, i assume you dun mind going unorthodox. first masturbate, when you are about to cum, then insert it into wife.

[Screwist]

In terms of shooting into wife, i think its all mental and possibly TS too used to masturbation alr. Must moderate self-sex with real sex lah, then got balance mah.

In terms of conceiving a baby, i think its alot more to timing of TS wife ovulation cycle, stress levels, heaven's will, etc. Scientific methods point to going to gynae to plot timing cycle.

Personal Opinion, pressure off TS!! Just have sex with your wife without any pressure, change positions, experiment with her grinding her hips harder while squeezing her pussy, etc. You can do it BRO!

[sammyboyfor]

Originally Posted by Squeezy

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Any bros here can offer me some good advise?

Should be "Need ADVICE..." & "..can offer me some good ADVICE?".

"Advise" is a verb.

[xiaolibiantai]

Originally Posted by trash55

During sex with your wife, after prolong pumping and still cannot cum, you can take out your cock, ask her to open her mouth, and you masturbate in your style before cumming in her mouth... that works for me.

He wants to try for a baby...

[xiaolibiantai]

Worst case, see a gynae and go through a process where you masturbate, and the gynae inject your sperm into your wife's vagina and to where her egg is.

[larue]

Intimacy issues bro. I have them too. I have trouble screwing anyone my brain perceives to be 'not-a-slut'. Friends tell me they love to have my problem. Believe me, they don't.

I like cumming fast-ish. I hate going at it for such a loong time and still not cum!

Always been like that? Since the day you got married?

Have the same issue when screwing FL's (if you do)?

It could be performance pressure for you, but this problem is defintely purely psychological. Everyone's own preformance pressure and ability are different.

My wife and I don't fuck anymore (and haven't done so for years), so there's no issue there. But my beloved FL asks me why I can't do it anymore, and I have to lie ha ha.

Can't tell her I have trouble now cos I actually like you very much, whereas you used to be just another ..... slut.

Bloody pornography, years of it from a young age has really messed with my head.

What is it that messes with your head during love making TS?

[cavemanng]

It is confirm masterbate too much. I spoke to one freelance and she say she got client that just cannot cum after 30-40 mins of bonking. However she manage to make him cum by masterbating him for 3 mins.

Try not to masterbate for some time. I think it will work