This thread has been going for years at motherhood.com

[sammyboyfor]

http://singaporemotherhood.com/forum...ostitute.2895/

The women there have a very poor impression of you guys. They think you're all disgusting.

[KnightScorpio]

You need us guys to make your forum more popular.

[hi2u]

they can rant all they want, but girls with high sex drive are more scary than guys.

[Metzloff]

I was quite intrigued and read through the thread. The level of discussion amongst these good ladies is naive and pathetic. Banning prostitution is futile ; it's not the oldest profession in the world for nothing. Would these ladies prefer their husbands to spend $150 and an hour in GL, come back refreshed and able to put up with their griping and moaning and continue to finance their LV bag addictions OR for their husbands to get so fed up with no outlet and then find a sympathetic other woman, DIVORCE them legally and start again with a new family ?

The porn industry is worth hundreds of millions. In 1920s Shanghai, there were an estimated 200,000 prostitutes in the city. Chinese poets from the Sung Dynasty wrote poems about famous courtesans. The Tang Dynasty was brought to its knees because of an emperor's infatuation with his favourite concubine. Human nature has remained the same for centuries and these poor benighted ladies think they can change it with a few letters to the Straits Times Forum ?

[jacky43]

So local women has black mouth call girls. I support them even for a regular at RLD. Side track a PRC young man said we were stupid to marry a PRC girl. He said end of days she prefer her home boys. Ok! I will not comment on this issue and leave it to every body here.

Call girls and Nie Xiao Qian (Joey Wong) in 1987 A Chinses ghost story 1 has in common. Both were beautifully and pity, men will be please to die for her. The 4 remake version starring PRC actress Liu Yi Fei fail because the director does not want her to be the focus of this story.

Rather it became demon hunter Louis Ku story, and I must write he brought up his character well. Surpass his original Wu Ma who became famous after the first movie.

The ancient is right 18 levels of hell has place for call girl. She cheated $ and love from her customer. But guys has the right to budget and, remember mine friends. Xiao Qian too has many willing men to die for her, Ling Choi San (Leslie Cheung) happen to be one of them nothing more.

[sammyboyfor]

Here's another one...

http://forums.cozycot.com/relationsh...e-affairs.html

http://forums.cozycot.com/relationsh...ml#post1796621

[sammyboyfor]

More threads blaming sammyboy for all the sins of the world.

http://singaporemotherhood.com/forum...d-spouse.4099/

my hub started visiting the sammyboyforum, when u knew of it, too i was devastated, he was sorry n i thought after the arguments he stopped, than i realiased he never n got worse, he paid for sex, n later on had affair with colleague..over these last 4 yrs period all these happen, now ge moved out n we are still sorting ourselves out if to D or not

[sammyboyfor]

More http://singaporebrides.com/weddingfo...azy-wife.4399/

Thanks to everyone who posted, sorry that I didn't reply as I was overseas.

I've given it a lot of thought but no courage at all to talk to my husband about this. Just having a roller coaster kind of emotions lately. For some days I will feel like I trust him totally, on other days the monster will rear its head and I will feverishly check his PC.

Just a few days ago I saw he has a sammyboy account, and has ever posted asking for location of some prostitute den. That was some time back before we were together, so that's history and I won't hold anything against him even if he did find the prostitute. What will hurt me is if he did find, he then did lie to me because he told me before that he's never visited pros.

My husband is the kind of person who doesn't know how to say NO to people sometimes. If the person is persuasive or a good "salesperson", my husband will not no how to reject. I know this characteristic of his, which has led to some minor quarrels in the past because he never knew how to reject his friends forcing him to drink despite him not truly wanting to get drunk.

Because of this characteristics, I wonder if he would ever succumb to it if one day some pros approach him.

And lastly, to all those who posted to scold me, thank you. But I like to clarify that never in any way does he know I check on him. I do not question him this and that or what I found. The only tortured person here is me. He is living in bliss not knowing what his wife knew.

Junie,

I understand where you are coming from..my situation is very similar to yours..When i met my husband i used to trust him a lot even when he had to entertain at KTVs i never doubted him..

But then one day curiosity got the better of me and i checked his phone and i saw explicit msgs between him and a KTV girl. I confronted him about this but he just brushed it off as a dare from his frens...so i tried not to think too much abt but would always be affected when he had to entertain at KTVs..

Later on shortly after we got married, while i was using the family computer, i stumbled upon another email account that he had...In it i found bookings for social escorts and access to a sammyboy account with more bookings...Not wanting to break up our marriage on the basis that i might be accusing him wrongly, i confronted him abt this..His explanation was that since he was in the sales line, he had to make such bookings for some overseas clients...To be honest, i only believed half of what he said. Yes, i believe he was booking for his clients, but the amt of bookings also suggested that some were for his own purposes..Until today i will never know...

I also need to add that our sex life was clearly lacking..He kept giving me the reason that he had a low sex drive..but even when we did make love it didn't feel like we were making love and more like a hurry up and get it over with session..therefore my lack of trust in his words..

After that incident, we split up for half a year, after which i decided i still loved him so we got back together. I talked to him abt my insecurities but he always brushed them aside, or agreed momentarily to improve things but never really followed through. He began to lie to me abt his whereabouts esp when going to KTVs and very soon i found out..We quarreled a lot and his reason was that he didn't want me to kick up a fuss because it was for work..

Over the last 3 years i tried ways n means to get over my insecurities and trust him, after all in other aspects he is a good husband, providing for me and giving me all the material things i want...but still I'm not happy and i still occasionally check his phone and credit card bills..Im ashamed of myself and i do not want to carry on this way, i have seen a psychologist but to no avail the medicine just didn't agree with me..

I don't want to divorce him because i still love him and I want to make this marriage work. We don't have kids because i think our relationship is still not a suitable environment for kids..I want my kids to grow up in a happy family not one with multiple quarrels.

Im trying my best but marriage is a two way thing, I believe my husband wants to improve also but his priorities are now with his career. I want to be an understanding and caring wife who can overlook all these, but i don't feel loved enough and its adding to my insecurities..

Junie, like u, i want to stop my crazy behavior and i don't believe leaving is an option because the hurt the problem has created will never go away unless it is solved by the person it started with..this is what i believe..anyway i tried to run away once..but still everything led me back to him..Gal,your situation isn't as serious as mine, so its best to let it go..the things that you have discovered are very normal for a guy maybe he is not getting enough attention from u? Either way, unless it becomes more serious i would think its nothing to worry about. Get away from the obsessive behavior before it becomes an addiction like mine..

[mcyeoh]

Originally Posted by Metzloff

I was quite intrigued and read through the thread. The level of discussion amongst these good ladies is naive and pathetic. Banning prostitution is futile ; it's not the oldest profession in the world for nothing. Would these ladies prefer their husbands to spend $150 and an hour in GL, come back refreshed and able to put up with their griping and moaning and continue to finance their LV bag addictions OR for their husbands to get so fed up with no outlet and then find a sympathetic other woman, DIVORCE them legally and start again with a new family ?

The porn industry is worth hundreds of millions. In 1920s Shanghai, there were an estimated 200,000 prostitutes in the city. Chinese poets from the Sung Dynasty wrote poems about famous courtesans. The Tang Dynasty was brought to its knees because of an emperor's infatuation with his favourite concubine. Human nature has remained the same for centuries and these poor benighted ladies think they can change it with a few letters to the Straits Times Forum ?

wait, which emperor and concubine lead to the Tang downfall, care to elaborate??

please??

[bochapsing]

are these women from 1950's or 1960's?

men surf sbf and eat outside because of women like them....

[Lauhuu]

Whats new? Still the same old same old- all their fault, not my fault. I am disgusted. I dont understandd why. Why must he do this to me? Bla bla bla....

[sleepygordon]

Originally Posted by Lauhuu

Whats new? Still the same old same old- all their fault, not my fault. I am disgusted. I dont understandd why. Why must he do this to me? Bla bla bla....

Reminds me of my ex wife....it is never her fault, it is always YOUR fault.

Plenty of rigid SG women out there who thinks that they are only to be placed on top of a pedestal, to be worshiped and adored while doing nothing to deserve such treatment.

[discordpiggy]

those women are stupid!!! I had not known sbf in 2001, if i had I would have been one of the pioneers who joined. simply because I was busy eating their husbands in real life without even using SBF and even without them knowing! ha!!!

seriously, if they don't work on their relationship regardless if there is SBF or whatever sex forum or those make a friend website, men can still go hang out in clubs or pubs to pick up women for sex.

Relationships need to be build on and constantly improved with understanding, be forgiving, accommodating and trust. Putting a blame on a mere website is not solving the issue but further taking a step into disaster. Finding the real problem using logic and reasoning to solve it, is the solution.

prostitution is the oldest profession since mankind and sex is just a basic primal need and the lowest form at Maslow's hierarchy of needs. To that point, blaming SBF is just plain stupid and being an imbecile.

there are stories here where wives had affairs not with folks here and there are husbands having affairs not patronising the FLs or escorts here so why point fingers but not look at themselves!

sigh! these married women, living in bliss yet wanna find fault and blame others!

above is just my point of view...

[Metzloff]

@ mcyeoh

Imperial concubine Yang ( Yang GuiFei) and Emperor XuanZhong.

Other rich & important men ensnared by the power of the pussy - Bill Clinton, Elliot Spitzer, Dominique Strauss-Kahn.

Now matter how smart/rich/powerful we guys are... powerless when the blood rushes downwards !

[mcyeoh]

Originally Posted by discordpiggy

those women are stupid!!! I had not known sbf in 2001, if i had I would have been one of the pioneers who joined. simply because I was busy eating their husbands in real life without even using SBF and even without them knowing! ha!!!

seriously, if they don't work on their relationship regardless if there is SBF or whatever sex forum or those make a friend website, men can still go hang out in clubs or pubs to pick up women for sex.

Relationships need to be build on and constantly improved with understanding, be forgiving, accommodating and trust. Putting a blame on a mere website is not solving the issue but further taking a step into disaster. Finding the real problem using logic and reasoning to solve it, is the solution.

prostitution is the oldest profession since mankind and sex is just a basic primal need and the lowest form at Maslow's hierarchy of needs. To that point, blaming SBF is just plain stupid and being an imbecile.

there are stories here where wives had affairs not with folks here and there are husbands having affairs not patronising the FLs or escorts here so why point fingers but not look at themselves!

sigh! these married women, living in bliss yet wanna find fault and blame others!

above is just my point of view...

wow...you are weak.....i was right, mankind are really control by sex and promiscuity...nothing wrong with that..just show how weak you are