Payment before or after service??

[blu3clues]

Do u auto give $$ before service start?

Some FLs ask for the $$ in a dulan way, before service starts u know its not going to be a good experience

[babyjohnwong]

For me, most of the times, these FLs ask for money straight up before the service
Good or bad, I think it's heng suay ba?
I have met very good ones but they ask for money straight up too
But I can only say, if they ask for money after the deed is done, most likely it will be an enjoyable session
Tried PRC, Viet and Thai FLs, usually the more service oriented ones are Thais
PRCs and Viets are usually more task oriented and just get the job done
Doing what is asked but usually don't go the extra mile to make you happy, so I have not done any RTFs yet for PRCs and Viets

[macfookie]

Payment before. Else they scared you run away

[Neverlookback]

Originally Posted by macfookie

Payment before. Else they scared you run away

I mean he hasna stated the type of SW to which he refers, so hard to give precise.
But in many cases first is normal

[Hurricane88]

Originally Posted by macfookie

Payment before. Else they scared you run away

Really jialat...my time dun have such payment in advance...always pay after service...proved that I had not doing this for sometime...

really jialat scared run away dun pay after service...

[ghostcow]

Good question hope senior bros can share

[Laopizhui]

in the past have read some bros did payment before service starts usually standard not good that y ask for payment 1st

i once had a reg ml (condo type) i used to go to, been going with her for 3 years plus then one fine day ask before even stepping in she demand payment 1st

i ask her y the sudden change, she say one guy ran off without paying her, i argue n say i been coming for 3 years n u dont trust me? she say money speaks louder then words, so i rather go off then to go with her rule

really depends on the situation as ml in the shop surely ask for entrance to be paid 1st, the service tips is usually after the service had been carried out, if otherwise i rather u walk out n find other fishes

[TheIdesOfMarch]

Originally Posted by Laopizhui

in the past have read some bros did payment before service starts usually standard not good that y ask for payment 1st

i once had a reg ml (condo type) i used to go to, been going with her for 3 years plus then one fine day ask before even stepping in she demand payment 1st

i ask her y the sudden change, she say one guy ran off without paying her, i argue n say i been coming for 3 years n u dont trust me? she say money speaks louder then words, so i rather go off then to go with her rule

really depends on the situation as ml in the shop surely ask for entrance to be paid 1st, the service tips is usually after the service had been carried out, if otherwise i rather u walk out n find other fishes

Good reminder when this happens that no matter all the sweet words that come out of any WL/ML's mouth to us, end of the day we're all just money trees and ATMs for them nothing more. Very realistic one, don't get gongtao.

[loneyheart]

Wow regular for 3 years n suddenly ask for payment 1st b4 svc
This type no need to support just go find better one

[WinterMelonTree]

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[blu3clues]

give $$ later is better as it will incentivise them to give better service?

[Laopizhui]

Originally Posted by loneyheart

Wow regular for 3 years n suddenly ask for payment 1st b4 svc
This type no need to support just go find better one

ya sian lor, but ok la sg so many spa around. endless supply of ml

[Laker]

FL asking for $ first usually bad experience for me e.g. eat my time, a bit then say tired want to change from FJ to HJ. I prefer ML because they spend more time in teasing. FLs nowadays first 5 min already finish catbath and bbbj cd on want to lie down open legs for missionary because the KY jelly coming out.

ML that I went to usually dun ask for $ first except for entrance fee. Some don't even discuss pricing of the HJ with me and v sui bian e.g. $50 can already. Even if switch to FJ can also nego a bit without spending too much time paying. If need to pay before, with the amount of time needed to take out the cash or do paynow, the feeling already gone.

[blu3clues]

Sometimes if ownself auto give the $$ first, I feel may make the FL feel better and give u better service

[Peacekeeping]

Originally Posted by blu3clues

Sometimes if ownself auto give the $$ first, I feel may make the FL feel better and give u better service

You are wrong. In all my years of chionging, it never pays to be the nice guy. They will only see you as a big sucker. If you take care of your own interests, they will respect you and treat you normally.